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Negotiation / Refusal Skills

Negotiation (learn to convince) and conflict resolution.
Assertiveness skills. (Being confidently aggressive. Ability to create “win-win” scenarios in interaction with others; to honor the rights of others to share ideas, opinions, questions, feelings, and to be accountable, while also reserving this same right for himself/herself.)
Refusal skills.

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Where do I live? | What Are My Rights? | My Friends And Family | What Are My Roots? | Virtual Vacation

Who Am I?

  • Who Am I?
    • Ask your online friends about their dances and costumes. (activity 9. If your students' online friends need motivation to share...)
  • What do I want to be when I'm older?
    • Do you think parents can influence a child in pursuing a given career? How? Do you think a parent can influence a child in not pursuing a given career? (question 5)
    • When you are in the real world trying to get a job, you have to compete with other people wanting the same position. Simulate a real world situation: Every class will publish online different job positions available in their imaginary companies. State the requirements for the position. Everyone in your classroom and in your online classroom can send their applications stating why they are the best candidates. (activity 2)
    • Invite persons with different occupations to visit your school and talk about their work online. Send invitations to the other classes participating with you in this module. (activity 3)
  • How would I want the world to be better when I'm older?
    • Our opinions can be strong and varied. Even inside the same family there are different opinions. How do you solve a problem when you have different opinions inside your family? (question 8)
    • Ask the students participating in the program to do this exercise in their class and share the results by email to the list. (activity 1/negotiate involvement)
    • Imagine you can change anything you want, what would you change? Write an essay explaining the things that make you worry about your family, your school and your country today and how would you like these things to be in the future. Send your essay to the list to share your ideas with the rest of the students participating in this program module. (activity 2/present to convince)
    • Invite other children participating in the program to look at your web site. (activity 5/motivate to take a look)
    • Create a drawing that expresses your vision of a better future. Send this picture by email to your online classmates and ask them to do the same for you. Print and label the drawings with the name and country of each artist. Design a giant poster with all the printed drawings. (activity 6)
  • What do I have to do to make the world a better place?
    • What elements are the common denominator in rivalry between brothers and sisters, rivalry between families and rivalry between countries? How can this be changed? (question 4)
    • Ask the students participating in the program to do this exercise in their class and share the results by email to the list. (activity 1/motivate involvement)
    • Write an essay expressing your ideas and your feelings toward having a better future for all. Make a real commitment. Send your essay to the list of students participating in the program module. Print some of your favorite essays and organize them in a folder to share with your community and your family. Enlist their help in shaping a better future for all. (activity 2)
    • Ask your global classmates to do the same with their class. (activity 3/motivate involvement)
    • List the ideas you have to help your classmates and your online classmates to make a better world. Add a drawing and send to the list so everyone in your global class can enjoy. Print your favorite letters and organize them in a folder. Share this folder with your family and your friends. (activity 5)
    • Find what are the endangered animals in your region, make a web page with the names and pictures of the animals. Explain why those animals are endangered. Invite the other students participating in the program module to visit your page. Ask them for suggestions that could help to minimize this situation. Add their ideas to your web page. (activity 7)
    • Think of ways in which the education you get and the way you treat others could help you make the world a better place to live. Send your ideas by email to the list of students participating in the program module. Ask the other students participating in the program module to share similar lists with you. Create a booklet of ideas using the information from all the lists. Print and distribute the booklets in your class. (activity 8)

Where Do I Live?

  • Can You Find Me?
    • Create a timeline with your online friends and identify important events that happened in your countries. (activity 7/motivate involvement)
  • Living Things Where I Live
    • Talk to mom, dad, extended family members, neighbors and friends and gather recipes that are specific to your region. Make a recipe book to share with other classes and our project participants. (activity 3/negotiate to get recipes)
    • Plan an 'International Dinner' to be held at the end of this online project. Gather recipes from the participants in our project and include them in the menu. Form teams now to plan the event.
      • Planning team - (includes your class teacher) decides when and where the dinner will be held, who will attend and establishes other teams for the distribution of responsibilities. Finds parent volunteers to help with the event.
      • Decorations team - prepares table and room decorations
      • Setup Team - arranges the room, tables etc.
      • Food Team - makes sure a variety of foods are selected for the menu and recruits student volunteers who will cook the recipes.
      • Entertainment Team - plans multicultural games, 'quiz shows' and music for the evening.
      • Publicity Team - creates invitations for the dinner, posters, arranges for photos, etc.
      • Research Team - helps classmates find resources for their chosen country while planning the music, food, entertainment.
      • Clean up Team - helps tidy the area when the dinner event is over. (activity 4/negotiate for your views to be heard)
    • Make a 'travel brochure' of your city. In it include the habitats of plants and animals in your town. Is there a zoo close by or an aquarium? Find pictures in magazines or draw them yourself. Use printed materials as well as online sources to gather details about the places in your brochure. (activity 5/make it a brochure that sells)
    • Write a persuasive letter encouraging your online friends to visit your city. Be sure to support your position with details. (activity 9)
    • Make a 'Help Wanted' page for a newspaper in your area with these new job descriptions. (activity 11)
  • The Places Where I Learn
    • Arrange for a Kidlink Chat meeting and discuss education. Compare notes on the weather, the animals that teach you, subjects you like and other things that educate you. (activity 6/negotiate involvement, sell your ideas)
    • Plan how you are going to maintain life-long learning. Write an essay or a letter to the others in the project on how you plan to keep yourself educated throughout life. What learning methods are you going to use? Will the media (Newspapers, TV, radio, Internet, etc.) help you to continue learning? Tell the others about media that you think would be helpful. If they are on the Internet make sure you send a link to it for the others to see. (activity 8/sell your ideas)
  • Our Global Village
    • What does it mean to show respect for someone? How do you feel when someone respects you? (question 2
    • We know that people in the global village have different opinions and argue. How can we share different opinions in a positive way? (question 10)
    • Don't forget to take into consideration all the different nationalities. Do they have different needs? (question 12/understanding the needs of opponents)
    • How are you going to convince the people that they should speak at least one common language? (question 15)
    • Interview an older person in your family or community and ask them to tell you about their home when they were your age. (activity 2/motivate involvement)
    • Ask people to visit your site and add a guestbook and/or pages where you put comments from others. (activity 8/motivate involvement)

What Are My Rights?

  • What Are Rights?

    • Make a survey of what rights the students in your classroom think they have. Make an analysis of the result, and discuss possible reasons for differences in opinion.  (activity 2/motivate involvement)

    • What do you think every child should have?

      • Divide the class into groups. Each group draws the outline of a child on a large piece of paper. Name your "new child."
      • What special qualities do you want this person to have when it is grown up? Write those qualities in a circle around the child. You might include qualities such as "healthy," "well educated" and "happy."
      • Draw pictures and place them around the child and inside the circle to symbolize these qualities. Pictures from magazines such as a book to represent "well educated" are fine.
      • Inside the outline of the child write the needs that each child has in order to grow into this adult you have described. Proper food and education in some form will be necessary. What else? Go back to the Convention and see which ones guarantee the needs that your ideal person will need in childhood.
      • Place the number of the Article near the good qualities that you listed.
      • Groups "introduce" their ideal child to the class and explain the qualities and needs that each listed. (activity 4/sell your ideas)
  • The Right To Be Me

    • Are there some kids that you dislike so much that you think they shouldn't be around you? Is that right? Do you make life miserable for other kids? Do you have a right to do that? (question 2)

    • Ask them questions about their names (question 5/negotiate answers)

    • Each student writes on separate pieces of paper one positive thing about every other student in the class. The teacher collects the slips of paper and gathers all the positive statements about each student. The positive statements are sorted by child and typed on one sheet. These lists of positive qualities are then given to the appropriate student. (activity 8/make convincing inputs)

  • Special Needs

    • Design posters to help improve attitudes toward children with disabilities. Display them in your classroom and school. (activity 8/make it convincing)

    • Work in groups to design the "ideal" school for all students including those with disabilities. Would you include anything that your school doesn't have now? Will your ideal school have two floors and elevators or will it be a sprawling one floor school? Draw your school and carefully label all the rooms. (activity 9/make it convincing)
  • How Can I Be Heard?

    • Ask your friends in this program from other countries what kinds of decisions they are able to make for themselves. (question 4/motivate involvement)

    • Are there strategies that help us express our opinions in a positive and nonthreatening way? Ask other participants what strategies worked for them. (question 9)

    • As a class brainstorm a list of issues and circumstances for which kids would like to have some input. Divide your list into three areas: home, school, community. Break into small groups and plan ways that your ideas can be heard. Share these with the class. (activity 1)

    • Role play situations where kids are presenting their ideas to adults. Be convincing. Support your suggestions with valid information. (activity 2)

    • Arrange to meet another class on Kidlink's chat network and discuss some of these questions. (activity 3/motivate involvement)
    • Think of something that you believe should be changed in your town. Write a letter to the editor of the local newspaper or your elected official. (activity 4)
    • Use watercolor or any type of paint and design a poster for your room asking the other members in your house to respect your privacy. Make it *positive*, not negative. (activity 5)
    • Write a poem that tells your parents what rights you think you should have at your home. (activity 6)
  • How Can I Be Safe?

    • Talk to you parents and make a list of your childhood illnesses and when you had them. (activity 1/motivate them to share)

    • Write an essay, "If I Were in Charge of the School..." Post to the mailing list. (activity 2/make convincing)

  • Children @ work

    • Ask your friends participating in Who-Am-I? to tell you about the games kids play in their country. Ask grandparents to tell you about games they played when they were young. (question 9/motivate answers)

    • Prepare a debate on how much the minimum wage should be for kids who are old enough to work. Use the Kidlink Kidspace environment for the debate and invite other schools to watch or take part. (activity 2)

  • Do I Have Rights At School?

    • Work in groups in class and describe the "ideal school." Join other classes on Kidlink's Chat Network and present your school to them. Draw a picture of your ideal school. (activity 1/sell your ideas)

    • Tell them what you think about their school (activity 3/convince)

    • Write a haiku that tells your principal one thing you would like to have in your school but you don't have. Illustrate your haiku using your favorite medium. (activity 4)

  • Making It Happen

    • What are 10 things that all kids everywhere should have? Tell the group why you think these 10 are the most important things. See activity #1 below. Using each class Bill of Rights work together as a whole group and create one "Kids' Bill of Rights". (question 1/convince them)

    • If you had to be denied two of the rights on your list which two would you choose? Tell the group why. (question 3/convince)

    • Write your own 'Kids' Bill of Rights'

      • Divide your class into small groups and decide on 10 things that all young people everywhere should have. Write these on a large sheet of paper.
      • Display your chart and explain it to the rest of the class. Do you have all the things on your Bill? What prevents you from having them?
      • Make one "Kids' Bill of Rights" for your class.
      • Make a banner with the Bill of Rights and display it in the classroom. (activity 1)
    • Make a collage or drawing using chalk, watercolors, or ink that shows what you think your 10 most important rights are. Display these art works for all in your school to see. (activity 2)
    • Discuss your responsibilites to your school. As a class, agree on one responsibility that can be improved. Do a project that will help this responsibility become a reality. (activity 6)
    • Prepare an assembly for your school about your Bill of Rights. Invite the media to come and film your performance and write about you in the local newspapers. (activity 8/motivate involvement)
    • Volunteer to visit other classrooms in your school and talk to the students about the rights of all children. (activity 9)
    • Write articles for your school newsletter and community newspaper about children's rights. (activity 10)
    • Ask to speak to community groups about your 'What Are My Rights?' work. (activity 11)

My Friends And Family

  • Lesson 1: Important Relationships

    • In this activity everyone in the class begins by writing 6 things that characterize a good friend. By the end of the activity you will narrow your class's list to only a total of 6. This is how you do it:

      • Each and every one in the group or class makes a list of the 6 most important things that characterize a good friend.
      • Divide into 3 groups and make a new list with the 6 most important words from your group based on your individual lists.
      • Write the words from the 3 groups on the blackboard. Then the whole group or class has to make a list of the 6 most important words.

      Consider these questions after you have finished the classroom activity:

      • Why did you choose these 6 words? Why are they the most important?
      • Did you discover that many of you listed the same words in your lists? Why do you think this happened?
      • Did you get any of your own words on the list for the group or class?
      • How did you feel when you did?
      • If you didn't get any of your words on the this list, how did you feel?

      Send your 6 words to the mailing list, and add a few lines about why you chose them. Please add a few sentences telling how you felt about doing this activity. Print messages sent from other participants and discuss them in your class. Compare the words the others have chosen with those of your own class/group. (activity 1)

  • Lesson 2: Resolving Disputes

    • What causes disputes among people? Does competition for material things, like who has the "right" clothes or what is the coolest music, lead to a lot of disputes? Are misunderstandings more likely to lead to trouble? (question 1)

    • What if the friends you hang out with want to do something you don't? What do you choose - go with your friends or do "things" your own way? (question 4)

    • How can you try to have some influence in your group? Do your friends value your opinion? (question 5)
    • How should we deal with bullies? (question 8)
    • How do you resolve disputes? Do you try to avoid people you disagree with? Do you find that listening carefully for what the other person really wants and needs can help? (question 11)
    • Does a third person sometimes help resolve disputes? (question 12)
    • Make a short role play about bullying where 4-5 actors take part. Decide in the group how your play shall end... with a happy or sad ending. Write the text and send it to the list. Print out the role plays which you receive by e-mail and play them in class. Let us know what you think about the plays you have received by e-mail. (activity 3)
    • Look through daily newspapers and find examples of local and world disputes. Place them on one side of a display board. On the other side of the display board place newspaper articles showing where people have resolved their problems peacefully. (activity 4)
    • Write a skit for a puppet show where 2 puppet friends are disputing because one friend broke a promise to the other. (activity 6)
    • Sometimes friends must forgive each other to settle disputes. Draw a picture of what "forgiveness" looks like. (activity 7)
    • Divide your class into small groups and discuss times in your favorite TV shows where people settled their disputes. What did they do to settle them? What were their strategies? Add your own ideas for ways to settles disputes and present the ideas of your small group to your whole class. (activity 8)
    • Make a display of words that "heal" when friendships are broken. (activity 9)
  • Lesson 3: Dealing With Loss

  • Lesson 4: Rules and Roles

    • Do you think young people should have responsibilities in their family? Can you expect that adults do all the work at the home? Why not or why? Be prepared to defend your answer with reasons. (question 3)

    • How do you negotiate with your "employers" - parents? Include some tips for those who would like to get better paid... and send them to the e-mail list. (question 10)

    • Do you think your negotiation tips can be used in other areas you want to change? If so, in what areas? (question 11)
    • Are there rules in your family? Do you think rules are important for a family? Defend your answer. Would you be happier if there were no rules at all in your family? (question 13)
    • Do a survey of your class and find out what place in the family birth order each student holds. Place yourself into three groups: the oldest, the middle children and the youngest. Each group discusses what the advantages or disadvantages of these positions and then presents this to the whole class. Be sure to share these ideas on your module's mailing list. (activity 1)
    • In small groups brainstorm the roles of the father, mother, children and grandparents or other family members who live with you. Make a display board with pictures that define these roles. (activity 2)
    • As a class group define together some of the roles that you have in a family. Include such things as: caregiver for pets, babysitter for younger siblings, etc. (activity 3)
    • Divide the class into smaller groups of boys and girls. List all the chores that you have to do in your home. Report these to the whole class. Use a Venn diagram or other graphic organizer to list these chores. Which chores are done by boys and girls? Which chores are done mostly by boys? Which chores are done mostly by girls? (activity 4)
    • Write a persuasive letter to your parents asking for more allowance or pay for your chores. Be sure to include at least three valid reasons to persuade them. (activity 5)
    • Make a survey in your class about the number of people who work at home or somewhere else, what kind of work they do and what they get paid every week or month. Please add comments about:
      • The amount you are paid.
      • If you work outside your home, do you share your money with your family?
      • What can you buy for the money you get?
      • How many movie tickets or hamburgers can you buy?
      • Send the results from your survey to the mailing list.
      • Make graphs comparing the results from the other messages sent to the list. (activity 11)
    • Write some rules you think would be necessary to improve things in your classroom. Vote and choose in your class which are the most important rules. Put the rules chosen in a list in your classroom for everybody to remember. Try to follow the rules for a week. Tell us what happened. (activity 12)
  • Lesson 5: Celebrations And Family Gatherings

    • Plan a festival, just as you would like it to be, and describe it to your on-line friends. Invite us to your party, tell us about what you'd like us to eat and what kind of traditions you have. Will there be stories told or will you sing special songs? Will there be dancing perhaps? Will you make special decorations? Tell us about it... (activity 3/make a "selling" invitation)

What Are My Roots?

  • Lesson 1: Meet My Family

    • During the eight weeks of this module you will make a Family Tree. Begin to gather information for your Family Tree by asking relatives for names, birth dates and birthplaces of members of your family. Gather your information and any pictures you might have in a folder. Collect important information about relatives that you would like to add to your Family Tree. As a class brainstorm some questions that you can ask your mom, dad, grandparents and relatives. Share these questions with the rest of us in this module. (activity 2/motivate involvement)

    • Pretend that you can go backward in time. You are having a conversation with a relative who lived a long time ago. What would you say to him or her? Write your conversations as a skit or play. Find a partner in your class who will take the part of your older relative and perform your play. (activity 3/motivate involvement)

    • Invite someone from your family to come to school and share a special talent they have. If there are bankers in your family they might talk to your class about a career in banking. If there are farmers in the class they might explain the challenges of living off the land and how it has changed or stayed the same over the years. (activity 6)

    • Celebrate "Grandparents Day" and invite your grandparents to come to school. Sing songs, write poems, make paintings for them and honor them with a festivity. Invite them to tell a story to the class from the days when they were young. (activity 7)
    • Have you or any of your relatives received any special awards, medals or trophies? Bring them to school (if you are allowed) and share the stories behind them. (activity 8)
    • Make a cassette recording or video tape of an interview or sharing time with an older relative. Perhaps they will tell some stories to share with your classmates. (activity 9)
  • Lesson 2: By Land, Sea or Air

    • Do you ever feel that your culture is under attack? Do you feel that your culture is changing or losing its identity because it is assimilating elements from other cultures? Share these concerns and ask the other students in KidCom how they feel. (question 12/convince)

    • Divide your class into groups and brainstorm the reasons why people leave a country and why people want to stay in a country. Display your reasons on a chart in your classroom. (activity 1/convince)

    • Zlata (10), who lived all throughout a war in Yugoslavia, told her story to Kidlink kids on Kidlink's chat network. Arrange to meet other participants in this module to discuss her experiences. (activity 2/convince)
    • As you continue to work on your Family Tree gather as much information about each relative as you can. Try to include birthdate, place of birth, wedding date, children, their birthdates and deaths. Include remarriages of those who have been widowed or divorced. Start with your immediate family and continue back as far as you can gain information. You will need lots of help from your parents and any older living relatives. (activity 7/motivate involvement)
    • Arrange to meet some of your friends on Kidlink's Chat Network and talk about the most interesting things you have found out about your family. (activity 8/motivate involvement)
  • Lesson 3: Looking Back in Time

    • How many people lived in your area 50-100 years ago? Ask your relatives or a librarian to help you find this information. (question 3)

    • Tell about outstanding individuals who have helped make our countries what they are today. (question 3/convince)

    • Ask your mom, dad or older relatives to describe a typical school day when they were younger. How is it different from your school day? Which would you prefer? (question 9)

    • Make a graph of the population growth of your area since 1950. Write an analysis of this graph. What do the figures show? How has this effected your country? Discuss the changes in your cities and the environment because of it. (activity 2/convince)

    • If possible arrange a family trip to visit a place where your ancestors lived, a graveyard or a house where you lived at one time. (activity 8/negotiate the trip)

  • Lesson 4: As My Branch Grows

    • Do you think that your ancestors handed down to you a world that is better than they had? Be ready to defend your answers. (question 3)

    • Use Kidlink's Chat Network to see if you can design a logo with someone in another school or to talk about the symbols you have chosen. (activity 9/motivate involvement)

Virtual Vacation

  • Inviting friends

    • How can you make your area interesting to others? Are there interesting places in the neighbourhood? Did anything interesting happen there in the past? Did any famous people ever live there? (question 2)

    • Are there any traditions, holidays, festivals or sports in your area that you think might interest your visitors? (question 11)

    • During the first two weeks you will write an invitation to kids all over the world to come to visit your area. (activity 1)

    • If any of you know someone in the travel industry you might like to invite them to the school to tell you about what to show your visitors. If you live in a town you can ask the mayor or perhaps a mom or a dad could come to the school to talk about your area. (activity 2)

    • Write an invitation: You can write a letter and send it to the mailing list or you can make a poster with pictures and text about your area, scan it and send it to the list. Or you can make a web page with the information you have gathered. Perhaps you would like to make a videotape and send to those interested in making a visit. A postcard, a photograph or a picture would surely be welcome. You can draw pictures in the computer or on paper. (activity 4)

    • After having sent your invitation, write to the mailing list and ask others if the information you gave them is clear enough. If anyone needs more information about your place, find it and post it to the list. (activity 6)

    • At any point in the Virtual Vacation module, exchange of postcards, pictures, travel brochures, posters and videos of places visited or to be visited would be great! They would make a wonderful bulletin board display. (activity 7)
  • Where do you want to go?

    • Work in groups of four and look the invitations through. Do you all agree? How do you solve a disagreement? Do you vote? Are there other ways for you to reach a decision? (activity 2)

    • E-mail requests to the mailing list for further information about places on the invitations, discuss with your new friends what you could do and if you have a request ask if it is possible to fulfil it. (activity 5)

    • Choose a place for your virtual vacation. Discuss why you would choose this particular place for your vacation. Find the place on the map and put a flag there. Find out about the latitude and longitude of the place you have chosen. (activity 6)
    • Prepare to present your choice to your class. When all have prepared their presentations, every group presents its choice to the class and the class discusses which place they think is the most exciting to visit. Find out from your budget if you can afford to go to this place. Then cast your votes. (activity 11)
  • Planning your 3 day visit

    • Now it is the time to start making arrangements for your virtual vacation. Get in touch with your hosts and reach an agreement with them about when to come. What is the easiest way for you to get to the area? (activity 1)

    • Write down the places you want to see and things you want to do on your vacation and send the list to your hosts via the mailing list. (activity 5)

    • Or you can either send an e-mail to a travel agency or visit one to find out exactly how you are going to get to the place you are planning to visit. (activity 8)

  • "Journeys" and "Visitors"

    • Ask your hosts for information if you need. (activity 6/motivate involvement)

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